I was trying to let the question go out of respect to the OP, but to answer the question of where morality comes from. Society.@Koda -- Different individuals and different societies draw on many sources for inspiration, influence and choice of their religion/spirituality/philosophy/ethics. We are explicitly taught by our parents, relatives, schools, and others, by the personal example of our parents and teachers and the heroes of our culture from historical figures to comic book and fictional characters. From the religions and religious influences in our own society and those of others. From friends, boy/girl scouts, team sports, boot camp, military service, going to war. From giving birth, delivering a baby. From raising a family. Saving a life at risk of your own. From death and loss. From caring for the dying. And from visions...direct religious experiences.
OldBroad44s answers it best. The society that surrounds a person is what gives and influences that persons morality. Whether its a religious circle, secular, indigenous, pagan, or some other religion or a combination.
I will add that not every social moral is for the better. This is true in both secular society and religious groups, Ive seen good and bad morals equally. Good morality is not exclusive to one social group.