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Jack, just for grins and giggles did you know thats its NOT illegal to bait deer in Oregon? You just can't bait Bear or cougar.
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I have a general question; how do you emotionally cope with death? My wife just left to put our dog down due to cancer- I just couldn't pull the f'n trigger. I'm confused- I have no emotional problems with bad guys, or bang gangers but this is just,,,I know it's the right thing to do yet I couldn't do it. My psychiatrist is going to have a field day when we discuss "Have you been depressed lately?" Yes, I put down my service dog and I feel like sh*t and I don't have grief coping skills so I've been searching on the net trying to get some ideas.
And for you azz's out there saying "This is for prepping!" Then I'd suggest you re-evaluate your mental health condition and ask yourself some very hard questions like "Can I really pull the trigger on someone?" As it's written in the book "The Truth about Self Protection" to kill is an un-natural act and it's a survival mindset that needs to be acknowledged before you go slinging lead. Suppose you had to pull the trigger on a spouse- could you do it? Like the Doctor who ended up killing some 12 elderly patients during Katrina because they couldn't be evacuated (he was cleared of all charges).
Emotional preparation is just as important as physical, I guess is what I'm saying in a roundabout way
I have a general question; how do you emotionally cope with death? My wife just left to put our dog down due to cancer- I just couldn't pull the f'n trigger. I'm confused- I have no emotional problems with bad guys, or bang gangers but this is just,,,I know it's the right thing to do yet I couldn't do it. My psychiatrist is going to have a field day when we discuss "Have you been depressed lately?" Yes, I put down my service dog and I feel like sh*t and I don't have grief coping skills so I've been searching on the net trying to get some ideas.
And for you azz's out there saying "This is for prepping!" Then I'd suggest you re-evaluate your mental health condition and ask yourself some very hard questions like "Can I really pull the trigger on someone?" As it's written in the book "The Truth about Self Protection" to kill is an un-natural act and it's a survival mindset that needs to be acknowledged before you go slinging lead. Suppose you had to pull the trigger on a spouse- could you do it? Like the Doctor who ended up killing some 12 elderly patients during Katrina because they couldn't be evacuated (he was cleared of all charges).
Emotional preparation is just as important as physical, I guess is what I'm saying in a roundabout way
Trailtrader, there's no "Method" for dealing with death. To me it's something that just hits you and the body reacts.
The only thing I can say is don't try to override what your body is telling you, just feel it. You might go from laughing to crying to cursing and back to laughing all in the span of a minute or two. That's what your body wants to do.
Can't try to "Get over it" or speed up the healing. You'll just wake up one morning and somehow, some way, it won't be the first thing on your mind. It'll be the second thing...then the third etc.
It sucks. It's supposed to suck or you didn't make the right connections along the way.
The wife and I had to put down our dog 4 days ago as most of you know. Well, we got a new dog for a few reasons- neither of us have "good" hearing and sometimes can't hear people knock on the door. Second, the dog gave us someone to focus on. So we got a "mutt" off "Pierce County Death Row" in Tacoma. 3 year old Cocker, might have been purebred nobody knows- no background, she's fixed,,,,spent a total of $330 today!!
Around the end of 2013 I posted on this thread that my wife had given me a Havalon Piranta skinning knife. These are the knives that use replacible surgical blades, in this case 2.75" long. Well, today I gave mine a murderous torture test. I cut, pried, scrapped and dug 6' of old caulking out of the gap between our bathtub and the floor with the knife! Wow, I love this thing! I've tried a number of different tools to get this k..p out, but only the Paranta had the sharpness, strength and flexibility to get the job done. The caulk's were a mix of old, rock like and soft and sticky. Broke two blades by extreme over bending (completely my fault) but just slipped in new blades and carried on. No damage to the knife frame and handle at all. I absolutely recommend these knives! I also like that my medical scalpel blades and some 4" skinner blades I bought fit too
( turning the knife into a non-folder, that must have the blade removed or sheathed after use).
I carry a few filet and butcher type knives in my truck all the time.My buddy told me to get 1 of those. I said I have enough knives for that application.
He bought me 1 for my birthday.He said they did 2 deer with 1 blade