Thinking of contacting the people who conceived me.
Some back ground. Born 1969. I was born in a portland hospital. The people who conceived me were college students so I am told. Had a spectacular childhood with a loving family. Never needed closure or had any other reason to contact conception people. Never bought into the needing medical information. I figure i will find out when anything arises.
As i get older, some things just linger. I also believe in treating others how you would want to be treated. Even strangers.
So I was thinking of trying to find them. If found, go through a lawyer to give them basics that basically I am alive. Like a 1 pager without names or too many details.
I have no need or desire to have a relationship
Of course i wouldnt mind some basic information but that is it.
Since they are now in their 70's. I may not have too much time to tell them all turned out well.
Worth it? Pros and Cons?
Mainly, if you were a 70 year old who gave up a kid for adoption. Would you want to know they are happy? Even if they are basically saying up yours and i do not want a relationship?
Some back ground. Born 1969. I was born in a portland hospital. The people who conceived me were college students so I am told. Had a spectacular childhood with a loving family. Never needed closure or had any other reason to contact conception people. Never bought into the needing medical information. I figure i will find out when anything arises.
As i get older, some things just linger. I also believe in treating others how you would want to be treated. Even strangers.
So I was thinking of trying to find them. If found, go through a lawyer to give them basics that basically I am alive. Like a 1 pager without names or too many details.
I have no need or desire to have a relationship
Of course i wouldnt mind some basic information but that is it.
Since they are now in their 70's. I may not have too much time to tell them all turned out well.
Worth it? Pros and Cons?
Mainly, if you were a 70 year old who gave up a kid for adoption. Would you want to know they are happy? Even if they are basically saying up yours and i do not want a relationship?