i am not validating not even sure what that means. but I think about concealed carry defense use situations so that I have a better understanding of situations. I would say it would never happen to me but two times I have had my hand on the gun but never pointed.
This is a hypothetical for me since I do not go. Really did not expect to be rebuked for asking the question.
First of all, I wouldn't take it personally, folks on this forum have some pretty strong feelings/opinions about folks that carry and intentionally put themselves in bad situations. You already stated you don't go to these things, so that excludes you.
This topic has been discussed, in depth, on this forum in a variety of ways and over several different circumstances. In general the view here is - don't ever put yourself in a potential bad or dangerous situation when carrying - period. It shows poor judgment and reflects poorly on the gun community when something goes wrong as a result of that choice.
Back to your original question - I think a person who goes to these types of things, carrying, really is asking for trouble - one, because you're likely to be targeted for wearing, say, a Trump hat, and you're likely, at least in areas such as Portland, to be seen as the bad guy because you have a gun. It's a bad decision for anyone to do it - whether lawful to do so or not - the cards are stacked against you.
In short, don't start none, won't be none.