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It's human nature to cast aspersions on folks that are different from us, from race, to religion to political affiliation, we all do it, but that doesn't make it right. I prefer, as often as I can, to measure the quality of the individual, and judge whether they are a good and decent person, by their own actions. It would be nice if we could get everyone to do that, and that is part of the dream that MLK Jr. himself had.
In my life, I find myself around liberals, Democrats, etc., far more than right-wing conservative types. I would probably classify my personal views as middle right, with a definite conservative bent, but not turning a blind eye to some of the good things that the left stand for, such as certain social programs and assistance, etc. - all within reason and limits, of course. I know of the types of folks you're referring to - the ones that like to go out and riot in downtown PDX over just about any issue, then freely admit they never voted. But I can tell you, I know plenty of hardworking, liberal millenials that would never get involved in such things. Being liberal doesn't mean you're a loser that only lives off the system - yes, you can probably say that a larger percentage of people that live off the government are liberal/Democrat, and the reasons may seem obvious as it is the Democrats that usually seek to further expand such programs. But I know a lot of hardworking, dedicated, trustworthy, intelligent and rational Democrats that take care of themselves and don't look to the government to feed them every day. So, do we ignore them and just focus on the small percentage of rabble-rousers that the media throw up on the screen? It's no more fair to take those folks and say all Democrats are like them than it is to say that the White Nationalists/KKK represent all Republicans/Conservatives - obviously they represent a small fraction, but there are those that try to make it appear that they represent most of us.
Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of disagreements with liberal/Democrat philosophy, but I have no problem counting them among my friends, family, co-workers, etc. So long as they are kind to me and my beliefs, I'm willing to be kind to them. We can be respectful and still disagree, even strongly. In fact, I do think there is value in being able to talk with those of beliefs that differ from our own. There is much to be learned from those of different backgrounds, different races, different religions - and I believe that spending time with them more often than not helps to bolster our own beliefs.
That said, yes, there are bad Democrats, but we must admit there are bad Republicans too. I go back to what I said earlier, I prefer to judge a person's quality of character by their actions, not by a party affiliation, etc. I get where you're coming from, I've felt the same way myself. I just find as I get older the generalizations haven't really helped me much, so I'm working to overcome that - maybe someday I'll succeed in that goal.
Well said. I personally am more on the liberal side of the political spectrum but have many friends that are on the opposite end of the scale. I consider myself lucky to know people who have different/opposing beliefs to me- I've always hated living in an "echo chamber", like when I was in college and every political/philosophical debate was just a case of preaching to the choir. It gets intellectually stale. I don't care what someone believes and don't begrudge them their worldview, as long as they are respectful of mine, and not a complete bubblegum in their dealings with the world.
I'm going to stray a little off topic but your post brought up the idea of govt programs and assistance, and I'd like to say that my wife and I would not be where we are today were it not for the help we received from the government. I personally would probably be dead- recovery center of King county (the state funded drug rehab program) literally saved my life, as I couldn't afford to go to a private drug treatment center and had no insurance at the time. Thank god I was poor and destitute enough to qualify for that program. A year later my wife and I were sober, living on food stamps, and about to face birth to our son. The state helped us pay for the hospital bills that would have otherwise put is in a massive hole of debt. Now, 5 years later, we are off govt assistance, living a productive and happy life in the suburbs! We paid back all the money we had to pay back, and are slowly building a life for ourselves and our son.
I know that we are an example of the ideal "success story" when it comes to receiving financial help from the state, and that not everyone living on welfare/food stamps has any desire to get off the dole, but we aren't the only ones who have a happy and productive life as the result of government programs. As much as I hate the idea of someone living permanently on the dole, I would feel like a massive hypocrite if I didn't support our govt giving others the same type of hand-up that we received.
Back on topic, most of my gay friends have always been pro-gun, and the idea, as stated in the article, that gays blacks etc.. represent "atypical" gun owners strikes me as lazy reporting by people who don't have a solid grasp of our American ideals.
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