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We often hear how they are "such a good boy", "turning their life around", etc., i.e., the family making excuses for their behavior.When I watched the video, the perp's grandma said he was trying to turn his life around and had a job interview planned for the day after the robbery.
This immediately reminded me of Dave's classic article from last year!
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When will these fools learn? "Turning your life around" is often fatal!
I've seen this personally (not to the extent someone gets killed, but someone gets in trouble) - the person tells their mother/father/grandparents/etc. that they are trying to turn their life around, etc., but in reality they just continue doing what they have been doing for some time.
A lot of these people don't want to change - they just want their family to stop bugging them about changing - so they make up excuses. The family, ever the enablers, believe them and continue to "help" them when they should demand proof of change.
When something bad happens to that person, then it is said isn't that person's fault, it is something else - guns, drugs, etc. - which is evidence of the underlying problem; failure to be held accountable for one's actions.