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Some people love to live in an HSA, where they can order and control everything around them, including the height of their neighbor's lawn, and what time of day they can mow it. The worst neighbor to have is this person, when they move out of town and bring their expectations with them.
A friend of mine lived out of town, on maybe 20 acres outside a rural community, raised 11 kids there. When their boys were teenagers, they liked to whoop and holler, ride motorcycles and shoot guns. A longtime neighbor sold his farm, and a big-money Californian bought it to retire, made a snooty horse ranch out of it.
For a while there the cops were called out on a regular basis- gunshots, kids yelling, loud motorcycles, whatever. They got to know them on a first name basis. The county mounty would tell them they weren't doing anything wrong, but they were required to respond and check it out. IIRC some accusations of harassment were made against the rich dude, and an understanding was reached.
I think it's sad that the average working guy can't afford to live out of town anymore. I grew up on a 200 acre dairy farm, and regret not being able to raise my kids out of town. It used to be that "poor people" lived out of town, but now anything with "acreage" around here is so out of reach it might as well be Beverly Hills. Gentrification doesn't just happen in cities.
added: I'm not whining here; I fully understand it's simple economics and isn't anyone's "fault" per se. I just think it's a sad change.
A friend of mine lived out of town, on maybe 20 acres outside a rural community, raised 11 kids there. When their boys were teenagers, they liked to whoop and holler, ride motorcycles and shoot guns. A longtime neighbor sold his farm, and a big-money Californian bought it to retire, made a snooty horse ranch out of it.
For a while there the cops were called out on a regular basis- gunshots, kids yelling, loud motorcycles, whatever. They got to know them on a first name basis. The county mounty would tell them they weren't doing anything wrong, but they were required to respond and check it out. IIRC some accusations of harassment were made against the rich dude, and an understanding was reached.
I think it's sad that the average working guy can't afford to live out of town anymore. I grew up on a 200 acre dairy farm, and regret not being able to raise my kids out of town. It used to be that "poor people" lived out of town, but now anything with "acreage" around here is so out of reach it might as well be Beverly Hills. Gentrification doesn't just happen in cities.
added: I'm not whining here; I fully understand it's simple economics and isn't anyone's "fault" per se. I just think it's a sad change.
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