Twelve years ago, I enrolled my ten year old daughter into a Taekwondo martial arts class.
Ten years later she has attained a fourth degree black belt and also teaches there.
While watching her class one day when she was a second degree black belt, they were teaching her how to deal with a pistol aimed at her head.
The attacker was standing in front of her, shoving a pistol against her face and shouting "get in the car, now!"
Her response was to drop downward very quickly, ram the web of her left hand upwards against the barrel, while chopping downward against the attackers wrist with her stronger right.
Rotating the pistol 180 degrees after hopefully breaking the attackers wrist, and then trying to pull the trigger if possible into the attackers face.
A women sitting next to me started complaining that she didn't like the idea that they had a gun in the studio (fake blue plastic Glock) and were training her son how to handle firearms and knives.
I asked her what good would all of the other lessons be if they stopped short and didn't cover all types of threats. Having a young daughter in this world we live in, I thought that the weapons training was one of the most important.
We just had a young women in Gresham get murdered recently, by a person she knew. After they caught the guy, I called up my daughter and asked her what she would have done if she was involved in the same type of situation.
Her response to me was " I would have told him not hurt me and I would do whatever he wanted, and then proceed to floor the accelerator and ram my car into the nearest power pole or solid wall, because people rush to help car accident victims and even if the guy had shot me, at least I would have medical help as soon as possible, instead of being taken out into the woods to be raped and shot."
I have never complained about the cost of all of those lessons because it has help center her emotions all through her teens and into adulthood.
One of the promises the head instructor made to me when I first enrolled her, was that her grades would go up if she stayed in the program.
She was straight A's and honor roll all through her school years since starting.
Ten years later she has attained a fourth degree black belt and also teaches there.
While watching her class one day when she was a second degree black belt, they were teaching her how to deal with a pistol aimed at her head.
The attacker was standing in front of her, shoving a pistol against her face and shouting "get in the car, now!"
Her response was to drop downward very quickly, ram the web of her left hand upwards against the barrel, while chopping downward against the attackers wrist with her stronger right.
Rotating the pistol 180 degrees after hopefully breaking the attackers wrist, and then trying to pull the trigger if possible into the attackers face.
A women sitting next to me started complaining that she didn't like the idea that they had a gun in the studio (fake blue plastic Glock) and were training her son how to handle firearms and knives.
I asked her what good would all of the other lessons be if they stopped short and didn't cover all types of threats. Having a young daughter in this world we live in, I thought that the weapons training was one of the most important.
We just had a young women in Gresham get murdered recently, by a person she knew. After they caught the guy, I called up my daughter and asked her what she would have done if she was involved in the same type of situation.
Her response to me was " I would have told him not hurt me and I would do whatever he wanted, and then proceed to floor the accelerator and ram my car into the nearest power pole or solid wall, because people rush to help car accident victims and even if the guy had shot me, at least I would have medical help as soon as possible, instead of being taken out into the woods to be raped and shot."
I have never complained about the cost of all of those lessons because it has help center her emotions all through her teens and into adulthood.
One of the promises the head instructor made to me when I first enrolled her, was that her grades would go up if she stayed in the program.
She was straight A's and honor roll all through her school years since starting.