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My family relations are crap now. I can't imagine what will happen when our parents die.
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I am only speculating her selling it as a possibility - I do NOT know that is her intent - but it would not surprise me based on her track record if that is something she is considering.And being of questionable character and emotional state, who is she selling it to? Probably either some dirtbag or a pawn shop.
I realized that this hunk of wood and steel is not worth a life of constant family problems...
Well you tell me - severe depression, on about every psych med there is, a daughter who told her grandma (my mother) "Don't even think of leaving my mom in charge of ANYTHING family wise as she is not responsible money wise", displaying irrational behavior over the years, poor decision making with nearly everything in her life. My father agree? - I can honestly say I doubt it....
I went through my Mom's death (my bro & sis were executors), and my other Bro's (died intestate) death within the past 4 years.
Without going into ANY details, we will never speak again.
You heard it from your Father and I would respect his wishes to do what he asked you to do. I think anything that passes from your Father goes to your Mother and it seems like she agrees with your Fathers wishes. You did not hear him tell your sister anything. I feel he would want you to be strong and protect your sister. I would think you should keep it and sleep well knowing it is in a safe place for now and the future. I think no matter what you do it will always be a thorn in her side if she chooses it to be. Sorry for your loss. JBobOk all kidding aside - I get a call from my sister tonight who I do not have a particularly close relationship with. She tells me it seems a 'mistake' was made and I got my dads Victory S &W she claims HE told her was hers upon his passing. He ALSO told me the same thing a few months before he passed away - specifically upon his passing I was 'To go get it and take it home" Ok - so to placate my sister I told her 'If that's what dad told you then I will not argue it and turn it over to you" She mentioned part of the issue was I got the rest of the guns and he told her the Victory was hers. Ok my sister has no interest in guns and I really don't know why this is coming up and I don't know what to do. Shall I tell my mom and let her make the decision? (which she will not deal with rationally) or just turn it over and be the BIGGER person? This is very weird and not something I am comfortable with. Please advise.........
This was my first and foremost thought. She has 'said one thing and done another' all her life....as someone that has btdt.. she is gonna sell it dude.