I'm at the verbal axe of my wife
My daughter met a 17 year old boy that is basically homeless
His father is in prison, for whatever reason, I'm not comfortable with.
His mother is apparently a drug addict. Specifics I do not, nor care to know.
The boy (I was told) does not have a SS card, so my daughter (19) was going to take him to the social security to help him out.
Out of the blue my wife wants to help the kid. She made comment to bringing him into our home until he can get on his feet. I can understand to a degree, he's a kid. BUT, a total stranger. I told her that bringing someone that we don't know the slightest thing about into our home, is not a good idea. I explained to my wife that doing something of that nature is no different than picking up a hitch hiker. It comes with a risk. Not only to the security of our family, also our possessions here-in.
My first thoughts are, there has to be somewhere for him to go. An aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, grand parents.
I told her that having a stranger in our space has too much risk factor for all of us. Including our pets. It would have me on-guard 110% and that I was extremely uncomfortable even with the thought. The subject soon turned into a debate. Where-which, I firmly said NO. I am NOT having this. She has since been blowing steam like a raging bull. She made comment that I did not care about the boys well being. Needless to say the wifes fuse is lit and I can not get her to rationalize no matter how I try to emphasize the risk involved.
I'm FIRM on my decision, so it makes no difference how others feel about my decision on the matter.
Edited to add, my daughter told me that she would no way bring this kid home
I'm curious how others would deal with this. Please, by all means, share your opinion
My daughter met a 17 year old boy that is basically homeless
His father is in prison, for whatever reason, I'm not comfortable with.
His mother is apparently a drug addict. Specifics I do not, nor care to know.
The boy (I was told) does not have a SS card, so my daughter (19) was going to take him to the social security to help him out.
Out of the blue my wife wants to help the kid. She made comment to bringing him into our home until he can get on his feet. I can understand to a degree, he's a kid. BUT, a total stranger. I told her that bringing someone that we don't know the slightest thing about into our home, is not a good idea. I explained to my wife that doing something of that nature is no different than picking up a hitch hiker. It comes with a risk. Not only to the security of our family, also our possessions here-in.
My first thoughts are, there has to be somewhere for him to go. An aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers, grand parents.
I told her that having a stranger in our space has too much risk factor for all of us. Including our pets. It would have me on-guard 110% and that I was extremely uncomfortable even with the thought. The subject soon turned into a debate. Where-which, I firmly said NO. I am NOT having this. She has since been blowing steam like a raging bull. She made comment that I did not care about the boys well being. Needless to say the wifes fuse is lit and I can not get her to rationalize no matter how I try to emphasize the risk involved.
I'm FIRM on my decision, so it makes no difference how others feel about my decision on the matter.
Edited to add, my daughter told me that she would no way bring this kid home
I'm curious how others would deal with this. Please, by all means, share your opinion
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