My family and I were really near being homeless. We used the food bank. I didn't have to beg from anyone but family till we got our feet under ourselves, but it was close. I don't throw fruit at them when I see them, I give what I can because I was almost them.
I am certain you're not the only one here that has been close. I was close to that place myself many years ago, thankfully I didn't get there.
My problem with giving out assistance, particularly money, to people on street corners (which I have done in the past) is that numerous reports have been done by news agencies showing that it's not uncommon for folks in these situations being con-artists, drug addicts, etc. When the ones asking for a job, any job, were offered legitimate work, they turned it down and just wanted cash. It's not possible in most cases to know what that person is really going through. And there is a probably better than good chance that you're being played.
So, my rule is this - no cash to anyone, ever. We donate to local relief agencies and shelters so we can be certain we're not throwing money at some huckster or drug addict. If I do choose to help someone on the street, I will buy them a meal. I've been approached a number of times coming out of a restaurant or coffee shop, asking for money. I always say no, but will offer to buy them something to eat.
I don't harbor negative thoughts against people that are truly struggling - it happens to even the best of folks. But there are so many people just refusing to take care of themselves and expecting others to do it for them - those f'ers are robbing the help that should be distributed to the folks that really need it. Until we find another way of dealing with it, I'll continue to only give my money to agencies that support those that are in real trouble.
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