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How do you suggest one builds better nerves? I've been through self defense situations and lawsuits, and came out on top. I feel I either have PTSD or am aware of the dangers out there and the reality of how easily it can happen.
So how do I get better nerves? As a result of my encounters, I now have surveillance in and outside my home, a dual sided dash cam, several body cams for different purposes, etc. I'm prepared with evidence.
Case in point, I have a tenant/former tenant that is disputing their deposit refund. They lie in every email and text. I have proof they left behind all kinds of stuff, a pool, BBQ, etc. and yet even via email they claim they never left any such thing behind. They instead claim I told them I would give them a refund, etc.
While I logically know I have a mountain of evidence against these people, I get really stressed out about it. I suppose the potential to be sued for BS reasons would make anyone stressed out while in a high paying/demand job, full time MBA program and four rentals, but still. How can I be more balanced? Nerves of steel so to speak? That fearless calm?
So how do I get better nerves? As a result of my encounters, I now have surveillance in and outside my home, a dual sided dash cam, several body cams for different purposes, etc. I'm prepared with evidence.
Case in point, I have a tenant/former tenant that is disputing their deposit refund. They lie in every email and text. I have proof they left behind all kinds of stuff, a pool, BBQ, etc. and yet even via email they claim they never left any such thing behind. They instead claim I told them I would give them a refund, etc.
While I logically know I have a mountain of evidence against these people, I get really stressed out about it. I suppose the potential to be sued for BS reasons would make anyone stressed out while in a high paying/demand job, full time MBA program and four rentals, but still. How can I be more balanced? Nerves of steel so to speak? That fearless calm?