I feel better already....i was taught "wise mind" its the middle of rational and emotional decision making. Too far either way...plays hell with ya. Gotta keep my stress/obsticals close and in focus you let em get away from ya and they start looking bigger than they are.While some stress is unavoidable, some is also self-inflicted. For someone who sees themselves as having trouble dealing with it, the self-inflicted stress should be adamantly avoided. Case-in-point- your rentals. Having rentals is stressful, there is no doubt. Perhaps you should consider investing in something else?? I have three rentals myself so I know what you are talking about. I have a couple of ideas that can aid your current situation if you want them, and may make things simpler in the future too. As far as your work situation, injustice and insanity are part of dealing with other people. In the end you were right and you were vindicated. Try to keep that as a soothing mantra whenever things get too stressful.
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Stress Management
Picture yourself near a stream.
Birds are singing in the crisp, cool mountain air.
Nothing can bother you here.
No one knows this secret place.
You are in total seclusion from that place called the world.
The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a cascade of serenity.
The water is clear.
You can easily make out the face of the person whose head you're holding under the water.
There now, feeling better?
I know I can do this!! Bet you can too!
THANKS FOR STRESS MANAGEMENT EXERCISE GUYS 4 count helps immensely