That's a tough one even without kids. My last job about 7-months ago I was humping a 30lb pack around buildings with a ladder and test equipment and my neck and shoulders hurt all the time. The only thing that helped was making sure I stayed hydrated and ate properly, but that is not so easy on construction sites, and when one is in the middle of a test.My body hurts, my back hurts constantly
Now this one is something I have put serious thought to. When I was younger and striving for better things, feeding kids and paying bills the stress was high. The new coffee table got hotwheel car groves "accidentally"...the new Explorer got a dent from a golf club put there by a little boy. After they grew up and left I realized all that crap DID NOT MATTER FOR "BUBBLEGUM"...what mattered was having a relationship with the kids and my wife...that is what mattered. I was able to manage the relationship with the kids, but not the wife.Now with kids it's a lot harder, but I'm feeling the same way. I'm miserable, mad, and have no patience all the time
Now that my life is restored, I strive to keep a good relationship with my new wife. And also now that grandkids are around, I could care less if they accidentally scratch something, or break something. There is nothing in the "world" more important to me than having a good and loving relationship with my family.
It's a hard lesson...stuff does not matter.