admit I prefer to avoid using analogies but disagree that we (society) dont use guns every day. If most people are not going to buy the idea that cars are more dangerous then that's a product of media bias and anti gun propaganda downplaying the analogy with cars. Defensive Gun Usage is roughly 64,000 incidents annually... on the low end estimate. Gun control statistics never include this fact of course.... it might offset that usage vs instances idea.The car analogy is tired because we largely don't use guns for everyday tasks.
Not only that, but the safety of something is best represented by the amount of use vs. the instances of death or injury. Guns don't get used for much of anything everyday, unless you count passively carrying them. So when you compare millions of hours of transportation time vs thousands of target shooting/hunting/policing time, the deaths per hour are probably not so great sounding for guns.
So most people are not going to buy the idea that cars are more dangerous in use than guns.
That's reality. We shouldn't apologize for guns being deadly when misused. They are deadly weapons for good reason.
You sure do seem to have a lot of arguments against guns....