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Kone Killer: Nice thing is you have about 4 months to figure out what's bothering you! Not to turn all psychologist on you but you've got to stop judging your desire not to be at the delivery. As they say, "It's neither good, nor bad. It just is."
I'm positive you're not the first man to feel that way. In fact, there are many women who'd rather not be at their own delivery! Keep talking to people. I bet you'll eventually meet someone who gets what you're saying. Find a friend who you know will listen and ask good questions so you can process what's really going on.
BTW...my children's father was at all the deliveries but he wasn't truly present. He was pretty worthless and I personally would have been fine if he'd stayed at home. But I think he came because he felt 'obligated' to do so.
Congratulations to you and the Mrs.!
I'm positive you're not the first man to feel that way. In fact, there are many women who'd rather not be at their own delivery! Keep talking to people. I bet you'll eventually meet someone who gets what you're saying. Find a friend who you know will listen and ask good questions so you can process what's really going on.
BTW...my children's father was at all the deliveries but he wasn't truly present. He was pretty worthless and I personally would have been fine if he'd stayed at home. But I think he came because he felt 'obligated' to do so.
Congratulations to you and the Mrs.!