west of Springfield MO
Years ago, I was considering a relocation to this area. I could've transferred there as a civilian federal employee. Earlier, I'd been stationed at Fort Lost in the Woods in the army and I knew the area some. I took my young wife back there for a look-see. It was a year when the cicadas were out. When evening came, they were singing away like crazy. My wife asked me, 'What's that sound?" I told her. She then said, "You didn't tell me there were bugs in the trees here. I'm not moving here." End of moving to Springfield idea. I never did get around to telling her about the ticks.
SW Missouri gets stinking humid hot in Summer. They get some real Winter. They are in the path of tornadoes (like through Joplin in 2011). But people manage to get through life there as anywhere. I don't know the real estate market these days but when I was interested, prices were comparatively low. You can imagine, with a lower cost of living, generally the local people have less money to spend on real estate. You go in there with a fat wallet, you can live high in that respect.
One thing to remember. If you're not from there and move in, you will always be an outsider. You may live there 20 years, you will still be thought of by locals as an outsider. If you bring a thick wallet and buy property there, some will resent it. It's your right to do it; you can't help what people think. They are welcoming of military service members in their community; they know soldiers likely will be going away.
Small town life is a funny thing. You can grow up in a small town, move away, yet you are always welcomed back upon return. So long as you're not a felon. But to never have lived there before, different story. Whereas In the city, you can live there all your life, it counts for nothing. You can arrive as a stranger in the city, nobody thinks a thing about it.