Life is much like a shooting match and I set them up for many years. Damn few guys help set it up and the rest are just there to enjoy the fun. I have done my part and it's time others stand up to run the match. Not nice for you to insult people but it's all good, when you are afraid you will say things to beg for help. People have to like you to help you and insults don't win friends. Folks in another state can be a valuable resource, you lost one today.
Aww shucks. You don't like me?