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I will be the opposite side of the fence here....
Most of the posts above, are speaking of & treating Women, as objects. "it" ????? I say this, what concept provides you the ability to be casting about judgements like these ????
I have absolutely no understanding of MEN, who think like the above posts, save coop44, and similar.
I once knew a very beautiful women, we were in a group forum, and I asked her out.... She says, uhh philip, I have a Girl Friend.... OK, shot down, right?
Later, months later, I am sharing to the Forum, about the hurendous pains I was experiancing with my oldest daughter... For those who do not OR did not know, I was, and still am, a "Single Parent", my wife died when this daughter was just Nine YO. I had to evict her, after Months of Therapy, joint, and individual, for both of us, and also Family, with her younger sister.
So... I am sharing ALL of what I was going through.... Afterwards, the Lady above, came up to me, almost trembeling.... HUGS me intimately, and long time... And quietly said in my ear....
"I wish I had HAD, a Father, like YOU"... She did Not let go of me... She comforting me, I comforting her, and you could NOT get a penny between us, that close, that personal.
Hey guys, you ever here the Male Attitude, that "I could convince a Lesbian to go Hetro ???? That is Hog Wash, many are that way ~Just Because~ of being treated as stated above. Women Are Not Objects to conquer, and then "Move On" .... Discarded like yesterdays News Paper...
Yes, I did not stay on topic, what Melonie did to herself is rediculous, utterly vain, That disgusts me, but not half as much as the comments about the Women in your life, current or past, yesterday's trash .....
Shame on you. Really sad, this thread is.
philip,
Who has an awesome relationship with the above mentioned daughter, after a year & a half, she came to my front door, and apologized, to her Father, for Not Understanding what was needed on her part, simply put, she realized, No Matter whose house it is, there ARE Rules to follow, she felt at 18, free ride, with no rules....
Wrong. But It Took MORE than I had to get her to understand that.
And I treat ALL women, thus: either like my Grand Mother, Mother, or Daughter.... neice is thrown in ad well.... And it has beenthat way, for 13 years, finally understanding, there are more important things, than showing a woman, you can sexually please her, hoping that she will accept my proposal to marry... Meh. I trust in God, to provide my needs, and THAT takes courage, my friends....
Sermon over.
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