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This is some of what I don't understand. If a Lesbian is attracted to women, why couple with a Butch? Why not just get a boyfriend ?What's to understand? Take a look at lesbian couples, real lesbians not pornho ones. What do you notice 100% of the time? There's one who's more feminine, and one who's more masculine. They may both have X chromosomes, but they are still fulfilling the stereotypical male/female relationship whether they care to admit it or not. That's my take anyway.
It's like asking why someone chose to be left handed. There is no "why".
This is some of what I don't understand. If a Lesbian is attracted to women, why couple with a Butch? Why not just get a boyfriend ?
I meet a lot of lesbians in the RV business. They seem to live RV'ing. I suspect it gives them additional privacy. Regardless the Butch types outnumber the Fems and they can be like dealing with wild boars. One thing I have noticed - and I was discussing this the other day with a co-worker - no matter how 'congenial' they may be at first, if something does not go their way they become Completely Unreasonable And Irrational. Almost like flipping a light switch. And they are worse when dealing with men and they change into their anti-man suit almost instantly. We do have one lesbian customer who is the exception. She is funny, always easy to get along with and quite frankly would be a kick to hang around with. She likes camping, fishing and shooting and well, is really like being around guys because that is exactly how she comes off, like one of the guys. No femininity about her but then not really 'Butch' either.The Fem's were easier to get along with. The Butch type always had an axe to grind.
Always a lot of drama in their personal lives.
There used to be a lesbian bar under the Morrison bridge in Portland. I happened to walk in one night not knowing what it was.
I thought I had found heaven, it was packed with chicks, most of them were really hot looking, but some looked like J. Edger Hoover's ugly brother.
And when I tried talking to one of the cute ones, I met her butch girlfriend.
It didn't take me long to figure I was going to get my *** kicked if I persisted in hanging around. Years later, one of my coworkers took me back to the same place and I had a great time.
No, just normal.If a man is attracted to females, does that make him a lesbian butch ?
Typically, I have found most lesbians here in the USA speak English so I just walk up and speak to them like I would anyone one else.
This is no doubt true. I wonder if the same is true with homosexual men? The reason is because many years ago a girlfriend's sister had a good male friend who was gay. When we would go to Portland to visit her sister he would hang out with us and one evening the sister told me it would be ok for me to ask him questions as she had informed him I had questions about it so we were out one night and I told him I had just one question - How do men who are gay (or think they are) enter into same sex relationships? His answer was not what I expected - He explained to me gay men do not play the standard courtship 'games' heteros do IE. the chasing around, dating, phone calls at all hours of the day etc. He said gay men know what they want immediately and forgo all the typical hetero activity for immediate gratification.but they are still fulfilling the stereotypical male/female relationship whether they care to admit it or not. That's my take anyway.