I've had to step up my game. He depends on me quite a bit but that's OK are.I fell in love with a woman a 2 years ago been trying to get her to come my way and I think it's working but I got a problem my dad doesn't live by himself and he depends on me so I don't do a lot of things anymore suck being at a crossroad. Can I have chose the right direction is to take care of my dad . But my heart hurts I love this woman but it looks like I will just need to move on and be there for my dad because I love my dad.