Stuff happens - to good, mediocre and bad people.
I don't hold other people responsible for what happens to me if they did not cause it to happen. I don't accept responsibility for what happens to others that I did not cause, I do accept responsibility for those things I did cause, and I try hard not to cause problems for other people.
As I said, I take responsibility seriously. If something bad happens to me or mine, then I try to be prepared for it. Yes, something may happen beyond my capability to respond to it - things have happened - you can't prepare for everything, sometimes not even partially.
Stuff happens and you try to do your best.
Would I accept help? I sure would. Would I ask for help? To a point, yes. Would I demand help of an innocent bystander? No. But it seems that a lot of people today have a warped sense of responsibility; they do not accept responsibility for themselves and demand it of others.
To clarify, I do agree with you.
Im just saying that these choices are going to be tough.
