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You've been infected with the dreaded TeenDotr-13..... T'aint no power in the 'Verse can cure ya .
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OK, but DO NOT try to yell "Hold the door!" to 16 year old her with your mind.My daughter is 2 and a half and I am trying every day to see her as that 8 year old, 13 year old, 16 year old. Am I connecting with her enough TODAY so I can connect tomorrow? We fathers cannot wait until tomorrow to make those connections. Now. Because we can never make that time up.
This is one silver lining of the Corn Teen...I can spend some great time with my kids!
You've got some wisdom there. The way it was explained to me is that when your child is a newborn, you do everything for her. You decide when she'll eat, sleep, and get a clean diaper. When she's 18 she should be an adult, and hopefully able to function in society as one, following her own rules. At that point your authority ends, and you're just an influence, if she still wants you to be. Some parents (like mine) think that you have this god-like parental authority over your child from the time they're born until the day they turn 18, when they're magically an adult.Your relationship is going to morph from parent - child and leader - follower to equal teammates. Many parents can't handle this and I've seen far too many relationships fall apart. Your daughter is becoming an individual and you need to always be her dad, but start being her friend as well. Good luck, I'll be in the same boat in a short decade.
Oh trust me i was the light of her life till about a year ago. Then wham!!! Teenager reared it's ugly head.
My boss has daughters that are in their 20s. When my wife and I found out we were having a girl, he said that things will be great til she's 12, then not to bother talking to her til she's 22.
The best advice I can offer is that you take a careful look at what's going on in her life. I taught middle school for a time and at that age, the 'mean girl' syndrome kicks in. Girls may get a bit vicious at that age and bullying from both girls and boys may be a factor. Besides that, there's a lot of hormonal stuff going on too. You might have a trusted female relative talk with her as well.I'm pretty decent at raising boys. Oh I make lots of mistakes. But I'm struggling with the daughter. She is not nice. Maybe 20% of the time she's fine. But good crap I'm worried.
Lol!!!!
Sucks