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"Your dog bit me, I'm afraid my son is next, we will not be back to your house until the dog is in the yard for the whole visit."
This is what I would say.
I've never had a dog seriously bite me. My parent's Westie nipped me because he didn't want to go somewhere and my parents were not good about disciplining him. He didn't mean to damage me - he just was being stubborn and didn't want to leave (I eventually coaxed him to get into the car) and wanted to express his displeasure in me making him leave. This is how dogs are if they feel they are higher up the totem pole than you are.
Of course, some dogs are messed up and need some training and discipline. It sounds like this dog has that problem and is not going to get what it needs.
When it comes to choosing between my child and a pet, my child will win every time without even a thought to the contrary (unless of course the child is mistreating an animal).
Fortunately I don't have in-laws (or a wife) anymore, so I don't need to make a choice, but if I did, and I had a minor child (my child is an adult), then I would not let that child in that house. The grandparents would be welcome to visit my house - without the dog.