Divorce forces sale

[BMGMAN]

Couldn't agree more. I mean especially the misterarman part.

I've scheduled a tentative day with ale lord. But hey, this is gonna get expensive so if ya'll want to get in a bidding war I'm fine with that

 

[Juniper9mm]

Take care and wishing you the best!

 

[64MercurysRule]

Sorry this is happening in all of your lives .
I did web search to see what is a good healthy path while on this journey and came up with this :

The best thing a dad can do during a divorce is to prioritize the children's well-being by putting their needs first, maintaining a civil relationship with the ex-partner, and ensuring emotional stability for the kids, which includes being present, listening to them, and managing one's own emotions. It's crucial to avoid involving children in marital disputes, ensure they understand the divorce isn't their fault, and maintain a consistent, supportive presence in their lives through routines and clear communication.
Have support from others and seek insight for yourself .

"If you're going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill.

 

[BMGMAN]

Sorry this is happening in all of your lives .
I did web search to see what is a good healthy path while on this journey and came up with this :

The best thing a dad can do during a divorce is to prioritize the children's well-being by putting their needs first, maintaining a civil relationship with the ex-partner, and ensuring emotional stability for the kids, which includes being present, listening to them, and managing one's own emotions. It's crucial to avoid involving children in marital disputes, ensure they understand the divorce isn't their fault, and maintain a consistent, supportive presence in their lives through routines and clear communication.
Have support from others and seek insight for yourself .

"If you're going through hell, keep going." - Winston Churchill.

My children are the absolute top of my list. I'm doing my best to stay level headed with their mom. The oldest ones get it. My 10 year old is having a hard time with it. But I'll do what I must to make their lives easier.

 

[64MercurysRule]

My children are the absolute top of my list. I'm doing my best to stay level headed with their mom. The oldest ones get it. My 10 year old is having a hard time with it. But I'll do what I must to make their lives easier.

You care and want stability in an ever changing world and a divorce obviously can be an emotional hurricane . Life is a marathon but you can do this , you got this . Keep us updated . Blessings to you and yours .

 

[Capn Jack]

Cheaper to keeper

Why make two people unhappy.?

 

[Capn Jack]

I've been criticized for saying, " You should never marry anyone you wouldn't go into business with".

We've been married for 59 years.

 

[misterarman]

I've scheduled a tentative day with ale lord. But hey, this is gonna get expensive so if ya'll want to get in a bidding war I'm fine with

My children are the absolute top of my list. I'm doing my best to stay level headed with their mom. The oldest ones get it. My 10 year old is having a hard time with it. But I'll do what I must to make their lives easier.

I've also been through a divorce in Washington with a wife that didn't work. To make matters worse I worked a crap ton of overtime so she could be a stay at home mom.
I would say it didn't end well but she is still a bitter lonely person and im happily married.
It was a rough journey but im happier than I have ever been now.
I did pay and pay any though.

 

[quneur]

The only advice I can offer is keep your affair with the hot 20 year old a secrete until the divorce is over. Just kidding (unless its actually true.) Hope all goes well for both of you.

 

[misterarman]

The only advice I can offer is keep your affair with the hot 20 year old a secrete until the divorce is over. Just kidding (unless its actually true.) Hope all goes well for both of you.

Washington is a no fault state. It doesn't matter. He has a job, she doesn't. That does matter.

 

[aljames]

Hang in there OP! I've never been through a divorce but my parents have been married 7 times collectively and all of my 5 siblings have been divorced at least once. After watching it all unfold over the years all I can say is that everything is going to be ok!

 

[2nd Amendment]

Well the time has come to part ways with my wife. And find another chapter. I will be listing piles of powder, primers, and reloading supplies in the coming weeks. I'm not gonna give the stuff away, but will be more than fare with pricing. I'll eventually be adding some firearms and miscellaneous stuff as well. Any and all laws will be applicable. Yes, even the ones most of us despise. Admin please move if this isn't in the right spot. Here's to the future peeps!

My condolences. If you could afford it, perhaps you could sell your whole collection to a buddy for $1 and he could keep them so you could buy them back later. I am guessing that's probably not allowed by the courts, but I don't know. Good luck!

 

[tkdguy]

Sending you my best....maybe in time you may reflect it was best and you have a new and better life?! Howl old are you?

 

[BMGMAN]

Sending you my best....maybe in time you may reflect it was best and you have a new and better life?! Howl old are you?

I'm 39. Been together 15 years. So no small investment.

 

[papaya]

As someone who finished a divorce this January you have my best wishes. Delaying is not a solution, I know it myself, I was doing the same stuff "because of the kids" - BS! I'm sorry but not sorry for you, if you got to this point I'm sorry for everything you went through to get here, I'm not sorry because despite some bumpy road ahead you'll be just fine in not too distant future. It will cost you, both mentally and FINANCIALLY. But it will get better, most likely much better!

I was hoping for an amicable divorce as well, don't get your hopes too high, especially if there is more than one divorced friend among her girlfriends, ex-wife clubs are the nemesis of amicability, logic and sanity.

Let me know if you need any advice, good lawyer (I never met mine in person and he's good) or other support.

 

[Koda]

Im just curious, does one have to sell personal property (like a gun collection) in a divorce?

 

[arakboss]

Im just curious, does one have to sell personal property (like a gun collection) in a divorce?

I didn't.

 

[BMGMAN]

I've been criticized for saying, " You should never marry anyone you wouldn't go into business with".

We've been married for

Im just curious, does one have to sell personal property (like a gun collection) in a divorce?

No. And any guns inherited are typically off limits. You just get to a point in life where less is more. Between my kids, separation and running my business I don't have as much time as I use to. Figure others can enjoy some of the stuff

 

[Tlock]

Im just curious, does one have to sell personal property (like a gun collection) in a divorce?

No. I kept everything. Money can get tight though, my divorce was a cheap a do it yourself at the courthouse. The big expense was when she tried moving the kids to Seattle to live in the basement of her puppetmaster Street performing boyfriends mom's house......

 

[unionguy]

Wishing you well on a tough process brother! Clarity is priceless.