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In talking with a gal whom I've known for the last 10 months or so (wife of a friend).....
Info: she turns 30 Sunday. From England. Beyond pregnant, like due any day and have a 2 year old at home.
I'm driving her to her car the other day (dealership recall) and she starts talking about how a mutual friend had a peeping tom recently and how that freaks her out. We talk about peepers and then burglars.... Rather quick progression.
So I start chuckling and mention about if anybody wants the valuable stuff at our house it's locked and bolted to the concrete floor in a safe. We talk about TV's, and how there is really nothing of material value in our houses.
I chuckle and tell her they should just go get some NRA stickers and put them in the window. That could help a little. Some false advertising.
Then the ball dropped.
She is afraid of guns. Being the type of person explained how I could understand that based on where she grew up because it's not part of their culture. I learned that to her they were only really ever seen as pheasant and bird hunting guns. She told me how her husband enjoys shooting, would do shotguns when they lived in Wisconsin but it wasn't anything major.
Jokingly I said "then you probably don't ever want to see my Instagram posts..."
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Do I want somebody who has a fear of them for no reason other than lack of exposure to be mandated to have one in the house? Nah.
Though I am looking forward to at some point sitting down with her and listening (not giving my opinion) to her thoughts and basis/background.
Do I hope to convert? Maybe, but it all starts with listening and offering ideas and suggestions in question form.
Hoping that one day, the person like this can become a person to whom I would trust to be somebody ok with a firearm in 'almost' every home. Until that day we have a lot of people to educate.
Sadly, the current society reminds me of Idiocracy where right now the antis are reproducing at a faster rate (and the thugs are reproducing at an even higher rate like bunnies). Meanwhile the pro firearm people are spitting out 1-2 when the others are 3-9 depending on what urban slum you are in.
Sidetracked a little....
Info: she turns 30 Sunday. From England. Beyond pregnant, like due any day and have a 2 year old at home.
I'm driving her to her car the other day (dealership recall) and she starts talking about how a mutual friend had a peeping tom recently and how that freaks her out. We talk about peepers and then burglars.... Rather quick progression.
So I start chuckling and mention about if anybody wants the valuable stuff at our house it's locked and bolted to the concrete floor in a safe. We talk about TV's, and how there is really nothing of material value in our houses.
I chuckle and tell her they should just go get some NRA stickers and put them in the window. That could help a little. Some false advertising.
Then the ball dropped.
She is afraid of guns. Being the type of person explained how I could understand that based on where she grew up because it's not part of their culture. I learned that to her they were only really ever seen as pheasant and bird hunting guns. She told me how her husband enjoys shooting, would do shotguns when they lived in Wisconsin but it wasn't anything major.
Jokingly I said "then you probably don't ever want to see my Instagram posts..."
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Do I want somebody who has a fear of them for no reason other than lack of exposure to be mandated to have one in the house? Nah.
Though I am looking forward to at some point sitting down with her and listening (not giving my opinion) to her thoughts and basis/background.
Do I hope to convert? Maybe, but it all starts with listening and offering ideas and suggestions in question form.
Hoping that one day, the person like this can become a person to whom I would trust to be somebody ok with a firearm in 'almost' every home. Until that day we have a lot of people to educate.
Sadly, the current society reminds me of Idiocracy where right now the antis are reproducing at a faster rate (and the thugs are reproducing at an even higher rate like bunnies). Meanwhile the pro firearm people are spitting out 1-2 when the others are 3-9 depending on what urban slum you are in.
Sidetracked a little....