The MANCAVE

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  1. 45alive

    45alive
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    What would you guys out there say is a FAIR amount of time to spend in The MANCAVE each day ? :s0153: I kind of feel guilty spending too much time inside there, :s0141: but My Wife watches T.V. and I surf the internet because she hates the internet and I hate T.V. So is it neglect and being selfish or ??? :s0076:
     
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  2. Dyjital

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    My wife and I know that each other needs "their time".

    Sometimes it's 1 hour, other times it's the whole damn weekend.

    A mature relationship understands this and as long as neither is feeling isolated from the other then the answer is no.
     
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    How long have you been married?
     
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    10 Years and have got along and love each other. Yes, we both allow each other time for our selves. Thank You Guy's ! :s0134:
     
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    You could just spend that time bumpin' uglies with each other instead of reading the dribble I post... o_O


    You're making me feel like "the other woman" now....



    :D
     
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    dude, ask your wife. They love that talky feelings crap. :)
     
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  7. 45alive

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    That's my Feminine side, sorry for the Dear Abby mushy stuff !
     
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    You sure you're not an OBGYN? o_O

    :D
     
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    You should be in touch with your feminine side... go on, touch it. :D
     
  11. 45alive

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    HhHa , Lol ! Thanks for the Humor guy's:s0140:
     
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  13. 45alive

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    :s0140:
     
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    Horrible pie-anna music... broken engrish text... what are the 8 signs my life is over?
     
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    Piano music is very EMO :s0161::s0058: :s0079:
     
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    That must be code for 'orrible! o_O
     
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    I think the key to a great relationship is not having any contact together. You can't fight if you don't interact.

    Kidding aside, it is healthy to have your alone time. We have young kids and it's even more important.
    Because you just don't get a break. It wears on you, and to have an hour or so of peace, quiet, and to just shut your brain down is so recharging.
     
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    I have a shop, a garage, and an office - Mancave must be a metro term...
     
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    On a serious note, do you touch her each day? And that is not some sex euphemism. Hold hands, rub shoulders, hug, rub her feet - maybe while she is watching TV?

    Do you let her know you are thinking about her each day? Just a few words to demonstrate you pay attention to her.


    These are important things.
     

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