I almost titled this thread "Disappointed by the other half's taste in guns" but I decided not to at the last moment. I picked out a gun for my other half a short while back. we have been together for 18 years and I taught them to shoot so I thought I knew enough to pick out a gun for them. Boy was I wrong. I ended up picking out a Ruger SR9c. I thought it was be the right size, have the right look, and fit their hand properly. When I presented it the gun was met with immediate disapproval. Mostly because of the manual safety. They just could not make their self feel comfortable with it. We went today to the gunshop for them to get a gun of their own choosing. After looking at Kahr, Springfield, Walther, S&W, Ruger, H&K, and SIG what did we end up going home with...? A Glock 23. How embarrassing. And to top it off, now I am stuck selling off the Ruger at a loss.