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Common denominator, thankfully, is not the same as "predictor". There will always be some individuals who more than "compensate for failure in the home". Let me relate, with great respect, the short stories of two gentlemen I worked with during my 40 years with DOD, both of whom had the gumption to "rise above".. . . . A simple fact attests to this. The number one common denominator of incarcerated felons, "They grew up without a father in the home". With that said, we must remember the wonderful mothers who successfully raise their children.
. . . . "No other success can compensate for failure in the home".
One man came to work for me awhile before I retired from active duty with the Air Force Office of Special Investigations (OSI). This man, a civilian agent, had grown up as (what some might refer to as) an "institutional child". He had only earned his high school diploma after aging out of state foster care system. Faced with the draft, he then enlisted in the air force and eventually cross-trained into OSI. During his 20 years of active duty service, he put together enough off-duty classes for a bachelor's degree and a master's degree. After he retired from active duty, OSI wisely kept him aboard as a DAF civilian agent. I only retained him in my shop about 14 months before OSI headquarters drafted him for a supervisory agent position in Washington DC.
The second man grew up fatherless in the mean streets of Houston (that part of town, he claimed, where "two-officer cars would not enter without backup from another two-officer car"). While some from that environment might claim their culture & complexion held them back, this man finished high school more or less on his own. When I first worked with him, we were both still on active duty with OSI, and he was already on his way to a bachelor's degree in spite of working full time as a criminal investigator (hardly a 9 to 5 job). Almost a decade passed before I next worked with him, long after we'd both retired from active duty. By that time, he was a CIA Officer with a master's degree.