So I recently moved to WA from CA, which doesn't allow the sale of a number of handguns that aren't on an approved handgun roster. So I'm pretty excited about the prospect of getting a handgun that I've always admired from afar. So long story short, I can't really afford to even buy a gun but as I may only be here for another year or so and then possible move back to CA, it is pretty much a necessity to get at least one non-roster handgun before I can't get any at all( I can bring any handgun legally back into CA so long as I acquired it legally in another state, as a resident of that state, and as long as it has its magazine converted to accept a max of 10 rounds). So I've always wanted an XDm 9mm. I'm thinking about a two-tone model in a 4.5". But I've also been looking at a HK45. Both seem pretty awesome. I had a 1911 before and I loved it. I worry that going to a 9mm might seem a bit too "light" for me since I've been used to shooting a 1911. But that might be a non-issue. Any thoughts or recommendations? If you could buy only one, and potentially never the opportunity to get another, which would it be? Thanks for the help!