Those type of people I don’t consider “people I care about.” Because what they are saying in effect is, “you solely take on this cost and sacrifice of getting these preps ready and if they are ever meeded I will show up and benefit from all that time, money and effort you have sacrificed while I didn’t.” People who don’t have physical assets to contribute need to at least have worthwhile skills, otherwise they are useless.I would find it scarier if something happens and those people who said they didn't need weapons, or preps end up on your doorstep. How do you turn away people you care about, but decided not to do anything to help themselves. Every time I hear, "I don't need to prep. I'll just show up at your place!" I feel like pouring my coffee in their laps.