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You don't have to be "less fortunate" now a days to get an EBT card. That's what some of the frustration in this thread is about. There are not enough checks and balances in the system right now and a lot of people who shouldn't have EBT cards have them.
What you read is frustration and aggravation with the system, not bashing those in need. A lot of us have been in dire straights before and can sympathize. But a lot of people abuse the system and little is done about it.
You see, needy people don't like to look needy. They're actually really bubblegumin' embarrassed about having to pop out that EBT card at the register. So they don't walk around in rags, and nobody sells their car (EVERYONE just HAS to have a shiny new car, or else you look like a total broke-dick!). People present themselves as doing OK or even well-off, and, unfortunately, you just happened to notice the EBT that tells the lie.
Hmm I seem to remember not very long ago selling off cars, big screens, audio, guns and whatever else I could to keep the bills paid and food on the table.
Bought second hand clothes, shut off cable and the internet and anything else to not spend money on anything that was not vital to staying alive and sleeping inside.
They are only things, not really important to the grand scheme of staying alive.
I just shelled out nearly $15,000 for medical and CC bills, worked 60-70 hrs a week for months on end, went all week without eating so my kids could eat.
I can tell you I could really care less what people think of me or if I am poor.
I worked my *** off to pay my bills and pay my debts and have $5K saved for another car.
Can't find work? BS, BS and more BS.
Stop sucking on a meth pipe or sticking a needle in your arm or getting drunk every damn day and get a life.
I have no, zero, zip, nada sympathy, empathy or any of the other feel good nonsense that people bestow on the dregs.
Having a tough spell? Then suck it up and do something about it.
So yeah, when a large portion of my check is sucked out to pay for these parasites during the year and then I get to pay another $1200 in income tax at the end of the year.. I have a hard time feeling sorry for any of them.
I've been on extended "camping" trips before with 3 kids and a wife when times were hard so spare me.
I also worked 2 full time and a part time job to pull through when there was "no work"
I have never received help and I will never ask.
Must be a character flaw.
I just sought out and landed another $2800 side job. More 7 day weeks for me.
44 years old and still working circles around kids half my age.
If you can afford $200 nails and can afford to pay for a $50,000 rig you do not need any kind of assistance.
Embarrassed? Cry me a river.
My wife volunteers at the local shelter a couple time a week as well. That's right, she works for no money helping those in need.
She has been told to help herself to the food baskets but doesn't as there are people that need it more than us.
We leaned how to get by on nothing at all a long, long time ago.
Oh well, off to bed, 7 hrs at the ER has taken it's toll on me for the day.
I'm not sure if there's a point anywhere in there or if you're just venting..
Being unhappy about it doesn't change anything
Hmm I seem to remember not very long ago selling off cars, big screens, audio, guns and whatever else I could to keep the bills paid and food on the table.
Bought second hand clothes, shut off cable and the internet and anything else to not spend money on anything that was not vital to staying alive and sleeping inside.
They are only things, not really important to the grand scheme of staying alive.
I just shelled out nearly $15,000 for medical and CC bills, worked 60-70 hrs a week for months on end, went all week without eating so my kids could eat.
I can tell you I could really care less what people think of me or if I am poor.
I worked my *** off to pay my bills and pay my debts and have $5K saved for another car.
Can't find work? BS, BS and more BS.
Stop sucking on a meth pipe or sticking a needle in your arm or getting drunk every damn day and get a life.
I have no, zero, zip, nada sympathy, empathy or any of the other feel good nonsense that people bestow on the dregs.
Having a tough spell? Then suck it up and do something about it.
So yeah, when a large portion of my check is sucked out to pay for these parasites during the year and then I get to pay another $1200 in income tax at the end of the year.. I have a hard time feeling sorry for any of them.
I've been on extended "camping" trips before with 3 kids and a wife when times were hard so spare me.
I also worked 2 full time and a part time job to pull through when there was "no work"
I have never received help and I will never ask.
Must be a character flaw.
I just sought out and landed another $2800 side job. More 7 day weeks for me.
44 years old and still working circles around kids half my age.
If you can afford $200 nails and can afford to pay for a $50,000 rig you do not need any kind of assistance.
Embarrassed? Cry me a river.
My wife volunteers at the local shelter a couple time a week as well. That's right, she works for no money helping those in need.
She has been told to help herself to the food baskets but doesn't as there are people that need it more than us.
We leaned how to get by on nothing at all a long, long time ago.
Oh well, off to bed, 7 hrs at the ER has taken it's toll on me for the day.
I think his point is that well some of us are working our asses off trying to put food on the table, other folks are raising a generation of self entitled everyone gets a trophy I "Deserve" an I phone, please feed my children for me because I cant keep my broke *** member in my pants, witch are by the way hanging a foot down past my ***, and I cant figure out why no one will hire me, monsters.
Unhappy is not the right word.
And I'm not sure there is any point to your comment, except to be condescending.
Two sides to this story guys. You got the single stay at home mom who just bailed with her three kids because the "man" of the house busted her nose for the last time and needs the food stamps. I'm not proud of the fact but that's how we rolled when I was a kid and I'm thankful that food was there. I don't see any good damned reason why a woman or kids should have to suffer because their world was turned upside down. Then you have people like my neighbors who have not worked a day in the 4 years I've lived in this house but they are physically capable enough to make multiple trips each to the store on foot for groceries or spend day after day fishing at the local lake or drinking on their front porch. Problem is that when you're at Winco at 10:00pm and the lady in front of you flashes that food stamp card you don't know if it's the single mom healing from the broken nose buying groceries while her kids are asleep in the locked and parked car which they now live in or if it's the loser neighbor lady buying late night munchies for her and her bum husband. Try not to judge the person in line next to you as you really have to clue what their circumstances are.
Hell of a lot of judgement going on. How do you know she's not on a company iPhone? I'm on one right now. How do you know she's not driving her mom's 40k car? We borrowed my mothers car a lot when we were young, broke adults, and then again when we were older broke adults. Especially for single moms living with family, I'm sure it's pretty common to be getting a lot of help from different sources. Dad paying the phone bill, mom loaning the car, baby-daddy buying clothes, etc.
If you're going to judge your neighbor, at least broaden your mind a bit.
Good points, Ben. In my case my sister gave me her old phone and put me on her plan just so I had a point of contact. My clothes were in good repair because I had purchased quality. When I was able to pick up a short term job I bought personal items, i.e. toothpaste, razor blades, soap and other necessary items not covered by food stamps in bulk. Public assistance is no gravy train. 2010-2011 was a year in hell. As far as just "get a job and suck it up" it wasn't as simple as it seems. No one, and I mean NO ONE, wanted to hire a college educated 55 year old man. I spent each day sending out resumes to no avail. I called on leads, lived at the State Employment center. I wasn't being lazy, I was just being unsuccessful. I had to collect bottles to raise bus fare. Yeah...It was a real smooth ride on public assistance. Walk a mile in my shoes guys before you judge.
I gave thanks for the help I received. I would rather pay taxes for that and eat what the sponges take than pay for other crap the government spends on. That's my story and I stick by it.
Dad paying phone bill (counts as income). If he is spending $100+ for the iphone, scale it down a bit and get a less trendy phone. Also if she worked for a company that gave her an iPhone for personal use she is probably making more money than I do without the assistance. So you can sort of rule that out. Loaning a car... possible, but you can typically tell that 50 year old women don't have "interesting" bumper stickers or "Princess" stickers and license plates. If the baby-daddy is giving money that is not state sactioned child support, that is income. It isn't hard to understand this. I am broadening my mind, by not expanding it with illicit drugs. When you are in line with some skank talking about how she slept with three different guys and was so "high" the entire time paying for her case of soda and funions with food stamps with two infants in tow and then stops you out in the parking lot to ask you for gas money in her new mustang complete with "princess" accessories on the car, that goes beyond "borrowing" a car, and also abusing the system.
I am sorry, but if their family can afford to give (not loan every once in a while) them a car, pay a $100+ cell phone bill, then I really don't think they qualify for a government assistance to have a better quality of life than those that are working hard for it.
Did your mom buy candy with her food stamps or pretty much real food with hers? I am willing to bet she bought real food with hers.