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I'm posting this because I'm so absolutely irritated about the situation I let myself get into for trying to be nice and help...Now I know why people these days are the way they are,At least some of them any way...
To the point....
I loaned a part to a fellow member right here on this site , I will not at this time disclose the part due to if I do people may know who this person is , I'm still trying to be nice and not blab about who it is until I decide what I'm going to do...
To the point....
I loaned the part,Many months ago,Not just a couple,But many... Over the coarse of many months I have PM'd this person requesting my part,Most times no response , It was no emergency at this time So no big deal....Well the few times I did get a response it was just B.S. excuses and promises of getting it to me that never happened...
Heck I even offered to swing in near him to pick up,My request just fell on deaf ears or at least ignoring ones...
I had since come into a trade deal,I let this person know this...Nothing...I let this person know I may loose money...Nothing... I was honest with the guy I was supposed to trade with and explained the deal... I felt my integrity being questioned through out this conversation because this part was advertised in the number of items included , I felt he thought I was fibbing about what was advertised just to get more interest... Long story short,Yes it could be longer...
I made the deal,But it opened the door for the guy to have leverage on getting the price down below the actual worth of the part...
So if the part shows up,Great finally....But now I have no need for it because the Gun is gone,I have suffered a loss all for being nice...
I was raised with the morals that if you borrow something return it in better condition than you borrowed it.... If you break the borrowed item you replace it with a better one....If you can't replace pay way more than it is worth to compensate for the loss and inconvenience...
I still work with your word is your Bond , Without Integrity What do you have...?
Guys help me out here with your thoughts...
Thank You!
To the point....
I loaned a part to a fellow member right here on this site , I will not at this time disclose the part due to if I do people may know who this person is , I'm still trying to be nice and not blab about who it is until I decide what I'm going to do...
To the point....
I loaned the part,Many months ago,Not just a couple,But many... Over the coarse of many months I have PM'd this person requesting my part,Most times no response , It was no emergency at this time So no big deal....Well the few times I did get a response it was just B.S. excuses and promises of getting it to me that never happened...
Heck I even offered to swing in near him to pick up,My request just fell on deaf ears or at least ignoring ones...
I had since come into a trade deal,I let this person know this...Nothing...I let this person know I may loose money...Nothing... I was honest with the guy I was supposed to trade with and explained the deal... I felt my integrity being questioned through out this conversation because this part was advertised in the number of items included , I felt he thought I was fibbing about what was advertised just to get more interest... Long story short,Yes it could be longer...
I made the deal,But it opened the door for the guy to have leverage on getting the price down below the actual worth of the part...
So if the part shows up,Great finally....But now I have no need for it because the Gun is gone,I have suffered a loss all for being nice...
I was raised with the morals that if you borrow something return it in better condition than you borrowed it.... If you break the borrowed item you replace it with a better one....If you can't replace pay way more than it is worth to compensate for the loss and inconvenience...
I still work with your word is your Bond , Without Integrity What do you have...?
Guys help me out here with your thoughts...
Thank You!