im only 30. barely. i feel like im from a different time. just an example, my folks raised me to respect my elders, stand up straight and look a man in the eye when shaking hands. i have 2 young boys. a 4 year old and a 11month old. i hope and pray i can raise them the way my parents and grandparents raised me because they were hard on me at times when necessary and pushed me to work hard for what i wanted. no easy handouts. at times there were rewards but nothing was for free. some of the kids i see these days are spoiled rotten and have no respect for anyone. naturally, i want to give my kids everything but i know when they get a little older, i need to teach them to earn what they want that way they can learn to respect the value of a dollar. i wish i could have spent more time with both of my grandfathers.