I've decided to use my Taurus Judge for night time home defense. Now the question is what load? Talked to a couple of buddies and they said bird shot. Reason being is simple...I won't have to worry about it traveling to my other neighbors and the spread will do a better job stopping the intruder. Question is...what brand? What bird shot and etc. Thoughts? (.410 for those that were wondering) Thanks! BTW links are always great!