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They have ZERO desire to reach across the table
This is absolutely true.
I'm not talking about compromising on our gun rights so that we all 'just get along' (with fewer rights), not by a long shot. The 2A couldn't be more clear in the writings of our forefathers. Most rallying against it are merely using it as a scapegoat for societies ills, usually caused by the same illogical thinking that put them on the anti side of this issue. I have no desire to sit down with the Ginny Burdick's and try to come to some agreement. That, in my mind, is purely a waste of time.
What I am talking about is judging someone's position on the 2A before they make it clear. If someone were to come on here and introduce themselves as a lifelong gun owner who has always voted and worked for Democrats, a very large portion of our members would waste no time tearing him or her to shreds. And where does that leave us? Again, what good does it do? We're so used to these combat politics forced on us by the media that we're blind to the opportunity, in a sense making us the sheep. This is how our opponents want us to act. They want us to salivate on our keyboards, so they can point at us while convincing people on the fence (the people we need for our cause) that they don't want to associate with or be one of those people. Most don't realize how effective this is, and we constantly play right into their hand with the childish nicknames and other playground tactics.
You can't tell me there aren't Democrats out there with stronger pro-2A records than some of those with an R after their name. If we attack them for their label, what will the likely outcome be? Politics is not a black and white, I'm right you're wrong sort of game, and this isn't the movies. You don't get to aggressively point out all of someone's flaws, then expect them to see the light and join you. Real people get hurt, and hold grudges, and tell their friends, and resent you and your cause. Rather than making excuses and pointing out more flaws, we should use a little more tact to try to avoid that negative interaction in the first place.
Many gun owners I talk to also insist that if a person believes in any restrictions on the 2A, they're not <insert phrase of your choosing here>. First, people change. I've said it many of times, when I was in high school I thought the government should own/run everything, literally a communist ideology. As I got older and learned about human nature, and realized why this great plan on paper didn't work, I completely shifted, eventually arriving at the opposite end of the spectrum as a libertarian. A gun owner who believes in background checks, or waiting periods, or whatever else at this moment may one day come to realize the error in their thinking, just as I did. Do you think that is going to happen if we as gun owners ostracize them for their current opinion? Or would it be more effective to welcome them with open arms, love them like a brother of the cause, and appreciate the fact that they're on our side of the line?
Again, do not read this as me trying to play nice with those who have made their position clear. I'm saying that until they do so, we need to treat people with more courtesy and respect.