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My GF is the same way. She tolerates my guns but is 100% ambiguous about almost all aspects of home security.
We've "had words" over this.
Me... just now.
Give it time if you guys are "new". When I met Wife she did not own a gun at all. Was not anti, just did not feel they were needed. I paid for her first gun and permit. She went along but I could see was not sold on the idea. When we took up home together I did get some kick about the money we spent. Till one night while at work some kook showed up beating on the door like he was trying to break it in. All of a sudden the guns were no longer a waste of money
As time has gone on she has slowly learned. That kook that shot up a mall north of us a while back was another wake up for her. She had been lax in her carry, that got her to go back to all the time carry. It's taken over 20 years but she is coming around to see things my way