The M&P9 by Smith and Wesson deserves a look. The lowest "felt recoil" of any other pistol I've shot, low axis on the bore helps. You should really shoot a few before buying, a lot of it is how it fits your hand. I own a few in different calibers, I've never had a failure of any kind. Many agencies have switched from Glock to the M&P. Lifetime service should you need it. Plus, its made in America.