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All the woman and boyfriend had to do was go into the house. Simple. If other dude breaks into house then justified.
But these people were letting emotions rule them. Got to get the ego and emotions out of the way and use thinking part of ur brain, not the animal instinct part.
It's often hard to do unless we practice it imo. And we can practice that in day to day interactions, we can recognize the emotions (fe "this ahole is really pissing me off") and then choose the response with the thinking part of our brain, not let the emotion dictate how we respond. Acting on emotions can lead to crazy fast escalation, but recognizing u are feeling that emotion, then pause and choosing the right response can de-escalate or at least make sure you are choosing the right response (all imo).
But these people were letting emotions rule them. Got to get the ego and emotions out of the way and use thinking part of ur brain, not the animal instinct part.
It's often hard to do unless we practice it imo. And we can practice that in day to day interactions, we can recognize the emotions (fe "this ahole is really pissing me off") and then choose the response with the thinking part of our brain, not let the emotion dictate how we respond. Acting on emotions can lead to crazy fast escalation, but recognizing u are feeling that emotion, then pause and choosing the right response can de-escalate or at least make sure you are choosing the right response (all imo).